Love game

no ordinary love

Its so draining, both physically and emotionally.
Men and women are brought up in two separate worlds and by right, we aren't even suppose to co-exist with each other. Its like a ticking time bomb.
We try to please the ones that we're invovled with so much that we even come up with pros and cons with a simple telephone call.
"What if he...?" "Wont' it be...?" "Is it ok?"
and there's no definite answer to any of those questions. They're all 50/50.
Men complain that they can't figure out what women want because they don't come right out with it.
Women complain that men  don't want to come out with it because they don't want to talk about their feelings ('feelings' used very lightly)
By the time you're done figuring out what the guy wants, it may be too late and he's grown sick and tired of you. All that effort wasted and you have to start over with someone new. Oh yea, lets not forget that people change.
Be single you say? If you're single, its true that you don't have to worry about any of this.
But what if non of your friends are single? You'll be the third wheel at every outing and event.Or what about when you're depressed or lonely, you can't call your friends because they're too busy with their own boyfriends/girlfriends.
People may even start to ask you, why don't you look for a boyfriend or why are you still single?
Then you'll start wishing that you're not single. Its a vicious cycle.
I kinda get it now why people say your wedding day is the happiest/best day of your life. You finally stop worrying(as much).