Why do we shout??

you yi tian yi ge zhi hui de jiao shou wen ta de xue sheng yi xia the wen ti :
"wei shen me ren sheng qi shi shuo hua yong han de?"

One day, a professor asked his students
"Why do we SHOUT instead of speak when we are ANGRY?"

suo you de xue sheng dou xiang le hen jiu, qi zhong you yi ge xue sheng suo :
yin wei wo men shang shi le " leng jing" suo yi wo men hui yong han de.

All the students thought for a while. One answered
"Because we lost our cool. That's why we SHOUT."

jiao shou you wen

"dan shi wei sen me bie ren jiu zai ni pang bian er yi, ni hai shi yong han de, nan dao bu neng xiao sheng de shuo ma? wei shen me zong shi tai yong han de?"

Asked the professor again,

"But the person is just right next to you, why can't we talk softly but have to SHOUT?"

ji hu suo you de xue sheng dou ci zui ba she de shuo le yi dui, dan she mei you yi ge da an shi rang jiao shou man yi de.

Everyone gave their opinions but none was accepted by the professor.

zui hou jiao shou jie shi shuo :

"dang liang ge ren sheng qi de shi hou, xin de ju li shi hen yuan de, er wei le yan gai dang zong de hu li shi dui fang neng gou ting jian, yu shi bin xu yong han de,

Lastly explained by the professor

"When we are ANGRY, our hearts drift apart. To mask the DISTANCE we felt, we instinctively SHOUT instead of speak so the other party can hear us."

dan shi zai han de tong shi ren hui geng sheng qi, geng sheng qi ju li jiu geng yuan, ju li geng yuan jiu you yao han geng da sheng........"


"But as we SHOUT, we get ANGRIER. And we felt we drift apart further. So we SHOUT even louder..."

jiao shou jie zhe ji zu shou :

"er dang liang ge ren xiang lian shi hui zen me yang ne? qing kwang gang hao xiang fan, bu dan bu hui yong han de, er cie shuo hua suo hen cing sheng xi hua, wei shen me?

The professor continued,
"It is the opposite when we are in love. Not only we do not shout, we whisper into each other ears. Why?"



yin wei ta men de xin hen jie jing, xin ju xin shi wen ji hu mei you ju li, suo yi xiang lian zong de liang ge ren tong chang shi er yu shu de shuo hua, dan shi xin zong de ai yi er geng shen, dao hou lai gen ben bu xu yao yan yu,

"This is because our hearts are very close, almost never apart. As our love deepen, we reach a state of communication where there is no need for words."

zi yong yen shen jiu ke yi juan qing, er cie shi xin ju xin zi wen zao yi jing mei you suo wei de ju li le...zui hou jiao shou zuo le yi ge jie lun

"We understand each other well enough just by exchanging look," concluded the professor.

"dang liang ge ren zheng chao shi, bu yao rang xin de ju li bian yuan, geng bu yao shuo bie rang xin ju li geng yuan de hua,

zi ran de guo le ji tian, deng yao xin de ju li yi jing bi jiao mei you na me yuan shi,

zai hao hao de shuo ba!!?

"Therefore, when we are arguing, DO NOT speak words that will make our hearts drift apart. WAIT a few days. When you feel your hearts are no longer far apart, pick up the conversation and continue from there."

[please correct me if any on my chinese translations are wrong]